Have Confidence and Go For It!
Published: Wednesday, September 03, 2008
I believe that any guy can get any girl, and vice versa, if the situation is right. Mr. Loyd has never had the right situation, and he gave up on looking for one. I know very, very hot women with guys who are not so, and they are happy. The thing is, the only guys who could give them what they needed happened to be sub-tens. In most cases, money wasn't an issue either. You wanna know why?
Women like integrity. Yeah, we know that we go for the liars, but we don't go for them if we know they're liars. After a while, we get sick of the players and go for the guys who aren't even playing the game. Much of the time, the Sub-Tens are the ones who treat us the best, in the end.
Examples? You got it.
I know a girl who never had real love, but was so beautiful that several eligible bachelors pretended to give it to her for their own selfish needs. When she woke up to this fact - in her still hot late 20s - she found a (frankly speaking) nerdy-looking guy who treated her the way she always wanted to be treated. They are married with a kid on the way.
Sometimes, the bravado of a person who, to the rest of society, shouldn't have any at all is very sexy. I have a friend who loved confidence. I mean, it turned her on. One night she was out with her friends and saw a guy who looked like a turtle without its shell act like he was George Clooney. It was so hot she ignored the fact that he was the polar opposite of George Clooney and chased him down. They've been dating for almost two years, and I smell an engagement ring.
So all you sub-tens out there must keep the faith. I'm not saying that ending up with a ten will happen every night, but if you stay focused, it could happen eventually.
Is there a character trait sexier than confidence? What do you think?
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by Janice Lane
I have a B.A in Journalism and Communications and often contribute my observations about dating and romance to GetOnTheCouch.com. I write from experience, observation and the heart.
I have a B.A in Journalism and Communications and often contribute my observations about dating and romance to GetOnTheCouch.com. I write from experience, observation and the heart.
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