Why Do Guys Get to be Fat?

07.07.2012

There are many double standards in the world that piss women off, but there is a certain time of year in which I am reminded of one above all of them: weight. It's getting warm, and that means beach weather. What beach weather also means is the re-emergence of bodily insecurity. This insecurity tends to be a bit lopsided: it's usually a woman th...

Top 5: Ways to Rekindle the Relationship

02.19.2012

Thing gets stale: bread, potato chips, relationships . . . Thing gets flat: beer, soda, relationships . . . Unlike the other things, however, relationships can be freshened. Relationships can be renewed. The fire of romance enjoyed by a couple in the beginning of a courtship can be rekindled. The rekindling of love can happen in many ways, ...

Hi - Ho - Hi - Ho...Enough with WORK Let Go!

03.03.2011

A workaholic spouse may not mean to be absent or inattentive, but you need some relief and cooperation to manage the pressure that inevitably results. Discover ways to save the relationship and your sanity. You Will Need * Strength * Journal * Schedule * Support * Therapy Step 1: Maintain schedule Maintain a strict...

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Monkey Business at Work

02.22.2011

Risking your career over a workplace romance? To paraphrase John Lennon, “All you need is love” and a little wise advice. You Will Need * An alluring coworker * And a willingness to lose your job, or worse Step 1: Keep it quiet at first Keep it quiet, at least at first. You may feel great the day after first hooking-up, but...

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Don't Go It Alone on Valentine's Day!

02.08.2011

Being unattached on February 14 can be a good thing—you just have to know how to celebrate it. You Will Need * An attitude adjustment * A sense of adventure * A box of chocolates * And a game plan Step 1: Realize you are not alone Realize that you are not alone. There are literally millions of others who don’t have ...

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I Want That Dirty Little Qwerty

02.07.2011

Want the thrill of sex with a stranger without the danger? Find a virtual lover. You Will Need * Internet access * Partner * Acronyms * Imagination * Lowered inhibitions * Common sense * Webcam (optional) Step 1: Find partners Find cybersex partners. Check out adult dating sites devoted to cybersex, or re...

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From Online to Showtime --- Making the Leap

01.17.2011

You’ve met someone online who shares your interests. Now it’s time to take it to the next level and meet in person. You Will Need * A public place to meet * Transportation * A friend * An observant eye * Realistic expectations Step 1: Meet in public Meet in a public place with plenty of other people around. ...

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Top 5: Places To Meet A Potential Sweetheart

12.20.2010

It is hard enough to meet somebody and start a relationship. Issues of class, race, interests, finances and more often present themselves as obstacles tedious enough to be legitimately dubbed "emotional landmines." I don't want to focus on any of those right now; it may take more than a list to deal with them. I want to talk about the concern that ...