GETTING SERIOUS ADVICE

Relationships are typically dynamic (ever changing) or static (not moving). Every so often, couples should take stock and ask themselves if they are happy with the direction their relationship is headed. When both partners are willing to invest time on a long-term basis, it's officially become serious.

Getting Serious: Not Quite Engaged

Is This Love? • Is It Meant to Be? • Long-Distance Love • Age Differences • Moving In Together • Interracial & Interfaith • Having 'The Talk' • Romance Tips • Arguments/Fights • Money Issues • Not Quite Engaged • Meeting the Parents • Lifestyle Differences • The Last Straw • Health Issues • Meeting Halfway • The One • On The Rocks • Temptation • PDAs • Career Differences • Quality Time •

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I'm not heartsick, I'm heart...confused
I'm not-quite-engaged to my fella...the love of my life, the one. But, my best friend is also male, and lately I've realized that I jump to defend my ...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Lack of Commitment
I have known this man for 10 years. We've talked about moving in together for three or four years; finally found a NICE place with everying we wanted,...read more (0 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Divorced Boyfriend
Okay,here goes. My boyfriend and I are pretty serious. I moved from Texas to North Carolina with him and we are seeking pre-marital counseling. My m...read more (1 answers)
Chris_Wilson posted in Getting Serious

How do I stay strong in a long distance relationship?
I am in a relationship with someone in the Marines. He is 22 and I am 19. Should I stay in this relationship even though we are not engaged yet? How c...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Someone can't make a real commitment...
It's been three years and my partner is not serious about our relationship. What should i do?...read more (1 answers)
kor25539 posted in Getting Serious

How to tell if my partner is becoming disinterested?
I seem to always miss the signs, but now, after the fact, it's quite clear. I remember laying in bed with my ex-girlfriend and the clock struck 11:11....read more (1 answers)
tbo56057 posted in Getting Serious

Does my boyfriend not care about how his words affect me?
My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. The thing is that when ever bad things happen he is very supportive physically (he will always hold me ...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Are we spending too much time together? What's healthy?
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. We met on a Monday, were official by Tuesday and said "I love you" a week later. We are pretty much in...read more (2 answers)
MagdaA posted in Getting Serious

Dating for less than a year - Too soon to live together?
If you have been dating someone for less than a year, is it too soon to move in with them? ...read more (1 answers)
Mtlgirl posted in Getting Serious

My GF gets emotional over the tiniest things. How to deal?
My girlfriend is a really emotional person but most of the time she gets emotional over the tiniest things. She got really upset once over her friend ...read more (1 answers)
Styx posted in Getting Serious

He has issues with my clothing choices. What should I do?
My boyfriend moved to Montreal less than a year ago from St-Vincent and the Grenadines, an island in the Caribbean. Unlike what it's tropical climate ...read more (1 answers)
MagdaA posted in Getting Serious

How to compromise on the small stuff when living together?
What's the best way to compromise when living with your significant other? My boyfriend and I argue over the temperature (I'm too cold, he's too hot),...read more (2 answers)
lmiller posted in Getting Serious

My girl's a workaholic, but that's not her fault, right?
My girl recently started working full time. I barely see her during the week. When she gets home she is exhausted and on the weekend we are both busy ...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

How to revive a monotonous five year relationship?
I've been in a long-term relationship for close to five years with the same guy. He's been my good friend for a few years before we even started dati...read more (1 answers)
Kat posted in Getting Serious

Long Distance Ultimatium - Should I stay or should I go?
My boyfriend of two years asked me to move with him across the country back to his home town. He's moving to begin med school. We're both in our late...read more (1 answers)
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