GETTING SERIOUS ADVICE

Relationships are typically dynamic (ever changing) or static (not moving). Every so often, couples should take stock and ask themselves if they are happy with the direction their relationship is headed. When both partners are willing to invest time on a long-term basis, it's officially become serious.

Getting Serious: Temptation

Is This Love? • Is It Meant to Be? • Long-Distance Love • Age Differences • Moving In Together • Interracial & Interfaith • Having 'The Talk' • Romance Tips • Arguments/Fights • Money Issues • Not Quite Engaged • Meeting the Parents • Lifestyle Differences • The Last Straw • Health Issues • Meeting Halfway • The One • On The Rocks • Temptation • PDAs • Career Differences • Quality Time •

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I'm not heartsick, I'm heart...confused
I'm not-quite-engaged to my fella...the love of my life, the one. But, my best friend is also male, and lately I've realized that I jump to defend my ...read more (1 answers)
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In a long distance relationship - should I take the risk with the new guy?
In a 3 year long distance relationship and my boyfriend would be gone for 3 more years. I'm starting to have a feelings for friend. We hang out every ...read more (0 answers)
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Someone can't make a real commitment...
It's been three years and my partner is not serious about our relationship. What should i do?...read more (1 answers)
kor25539 posted in Getting Serious

How to tell if my partner is becoming disinterested?
I seem to always miss the signs, but now, after the fact, it's quite clear. I remember laying in bed with my ex-girlfriend and the clock struck 11:11....read more (1 answers)
tbo56057 posted in Getting Serious

Dating for less than a year - Too soon to live together?
If you have been dating someone for less than a year, is it too soon to move in with them? ...read more (1 answers)
Mtlgirl posted in Getting Serious

He has issues with my clothing choices. What should I do?
My boyfriend moved to Montreal less than a year ago from St-Vincent and the Grenadines, an island in the Caribbean. Unlike what it's tropical climate ...read more (1 answers)
MagdaA posted in Getting Serious

How to compromise on the small stuff when living together?
What's the best way to compromise when living with your significant other? My boyfriend and I argue over the temperature (I'm too cold, he's too hot),...read more (2 answers)
lmiller posted in Getting Serious

My girl's a workaholic, but that's not her fault, right?
My girl recently started working full time. I barely see her during the week. When she gets home she is exhausted and on the weekend we are both busy ...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

From two different worlds - Will it last?
I am dating this girl who is in the top school for her major. upon graduating next year, she will have a successful, honorable position at a major com...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Financial struggles are hurting my relationship
My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and he sucks at managing his money. He takes care of me because I am in school and can only ...read more (1 answers)
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She wants to speed things along before I'm ready. Should I wait?
My girlfriend wants to get married. She is always talking about how she wants to have a family with me. We've almost been dating for five years. I'm 2...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

When smoking ruins a relationship
I used to smoke when I met my boyfriend. After four years of being with him, I decided to quit. Right after I quit, he picked up the nasty habit. It h...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Long-distance relationships - What's the protocol?
I'm in a committed, long-term, long-distance relationship. We've been together for just over two years (a bit more than a year of togetherness, and a...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Is fighting a critical part of a healthy relationship?
For the past two years I've been in a committed relationship with a wonderful guy. We get along great, always make each other laugh, sex is fantastic...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Woman breadwinner
Hi, I'm a 36 year-old business woman, who is also considered to be "on the fast-track" within my current Fortune 500 position. In any case, I have a ...read more (2 answers)
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