GETTING SERIOUS ADVICE

Relationships are typically dynamic (ever changing) or static (not moving). Every so often, couples should take stock and ask themselves if they are happy with the direction their relationship is headed. When both partners are willing to invest time on a long-term basis, it's officially become serious.

Getting Serious: Interracial & Interfaith

Is This Love? • Is It Meant to Be? • Long-Distance Love • Age Differences • Moving In Together • Interracial & Interfaith • Having 'The Talk' • Romance Tips • Arguments/Fights • Money Issues • Not Quite Engaged • Meeting the Parents • Lifestyle Differences • The Last Straw • Health Issues • Meeting Halfway • The One • On The Rocks • Temptation • PDAs • Career Differences • Quality Time •

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i Can't stop texting other guys!!!
i have had a boyfriend now for almost 3 months, and he treats me really good, But i always find myself talking to other guys and sometimes not in a fr...read more (0 answers)
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What makes a casual relationship turn serious?
When does dating turn into a long term (more serious) relationship? Is time the key, is complementary life goals the key, or is it just that loving fe...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Follow my career dreams or,,, my high school sweetheart?
I am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have been a couple since the beginning of high school. Now, he is going to the University of California for ...read more (5 answers)
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I can't tell if he's serious about me or not! Can you?
Hi. I have been seeing this guy for about two years. We have never discussed where it's going or if we're exclusive. Whenever I allude to "us", he cha...read more (1 answers)
mastergemini posted in Getting Serious

How do you know if you are falling out of love?
I have been with my boyfriend now for over three years and we just moved in together 8 months ago. Everything has been great in our relationship, he...read more (1 answers)
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All Was Well Until I Asked For More...
I have been dating a guy for a couple months now. Everything was going well, so I decided to bring up the conversation about what "we" were doing. I...read more (1 answers)
Amanda517 posted in Getting Serious

Pharmaceutical Barriers
I have been living with a great man for about six months now, and everything, at least on the surface seems to be going smoothly. My concern is that h...read more (2 answers)
jStreet posted in Getting Serious

Straight Boyfriend with Gay Friends
I am a heterosexual girl in love with a presumably heterosexual man. However the strange thing is that just about all of his male friends are gay. I w...read more (1 answers)
jStreet posted in Getting Serious

OCD is a Challenge - How to Handle...
I have been dating a guy who is clinically OCD. He takes medications that are supposed to lessen the symptoms, but I find that he requires me to accom...read more (3 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

How to trust your loved one? (not about the adultery)
Logically thinking, my boyfriend does not seem to hide something from me, but I do not trust him. The reason is that he makes all decisions with his r...read more (3 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

Shallow Boyfriend Where Art Thou Depth?
My boyfriend is a reserved and quiet person by nature. He can be simple in his conversations, but I like conversations with depth. I can be reserved...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious

How Do I Gain His Trust?
Due to my boyfriend going through a lot in his past relationships, it has been hard for him to completely trust me. We have been together going on tw...read more (1 answers)
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Designated mates
Is there such a thing as a soul mate?...read more (2 answers)
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Time to Get Serious? Is He on Board?
I met a guy online and we have been seeing each other a couple of times a week for about a month now. I really like him and I think he really likes m...read more (2 answers)
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His Dog hates me!
I think I'm in love with him, but the dog he's had for 10 years hates me! (I'm a cat person, but dogs are OK) It's a Lab mix and pretty big and scares...read more (1 answers)
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