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Relationships are typically dynamic (ever changing) or static (not moving). Every so often, couples should take stock and ask themselves if they are happy with the direction their relationship is headed. When both partners are willing to invest time on a long-term basis, it's officially become serious.

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03/17/2011
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I am currently living with my boyfriend. We are both getting divorced. I give this man anything he ask for and I will do anything for him. He plays...read more (1 answers)
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02/15/2011
Interrogation about the past
I have very good relationship and trustful partner that actually losy virginity with me. Still I have the tendency to ask questions about past (and pr...read more (1 answers)
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04/13/2010
Straight Boyfriend with Gay Friends
I am a heterosexual girl in love with a presumably heterosexual man. However the strange thing is that just about all of his male friends are gay. I w...read more (1 answers)
jStreet posted in Getting Serious
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04/13/2010
OCD is a Challenge - How to Handle...
I have been dating a guy who is clinically OCD. He takes medications that are supposed to lessen the symptoms, but I find that he requires me to accom...read more (3 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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04/06/2010
Shallow Boyfriend Where Art Thou Depth?
My boyfriend is a reserved and quiet person by nature. He can be simple in his conversations, but I like conversations with depth. I can be reserved...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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04/05/2010
Time to Get Serious? Is He on Board?
I met a guy online and we have been seeing each other a couple of times a week for about a month now. I really like him and I think he really likes m...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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01/08/2010
I'm hung up on an ex but dating someone else. What do I do?
So I dated this woman for about a year. I was 25 when we first met and, though I'd dated a number of other women before her, she was my first taste of...read more (1 answers)
JohnnyAdviceGuy posted in Getting Serious
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08/29/2009
Can i get this girl to commit to me?
the girl I've been seeing every day for two months is in love with her ex still and talks about their sex life all the time, in addition to being afra...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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08/11/2009
Is my girlfriend blowing me off?
At what point does "I'm busy" turn into "I'm getting blown off"? We've been dating for 3 months and are serious about each other. Typically we will ...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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08/08/2009
My boyfriend is picking his pal over me. What's his deal?
I lost my job early this year and needed to get a tenant in to help offset the cost of the mortgage. My boyfriend of one year had been recently pallin...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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08/07/2009
Does his innocence excuse his passiveness?
I just started dating this guy who I met through a friend who liked me. At least I think we're dating because when one of his friends directly asked u...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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07/18/2009
Cheating or experimentation?
I've been dating an exotic male dancer for a few months now. We have a lot of fun and things have been going great. We've talked about this being a ...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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07/16/2009
Financial debt solution. How do I get him to see my side?
Since graduating University I have been drowning in debt, which has led me to seek out alternative forms of income. I responded to an ad from an infer...read more (1 answers)
InfinityPurr posted in Getting Serious
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07/16/2009
My long-term relationship needs spicing up!
Does anyone have any suggestions for how to spice up a long term relationship? My girlfriend says that she does all the work and I really want to do s...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Getting Serious
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07/16/2009
How much personal space do I give my girlfriend?
I have been dating my girlfriend for 4.5 years and for the past few months I have caught her crying to herself. When I asked her what was wrong, she s...read more (2 answers)
Alex M posted in Getting Serious
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Would you date someone who had previously dated one of your friends?

Yes! I'm perfectly happy to date my friend's exes. They're exes for a reason.
No! It's too incestuous. I don't feel comfortable dating a friend's ex.
Maybe Yes: I haven't had the opportunity, but I don't see a problem with it.
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