STARTING OVER ADVICE

A marriage or long term relationship can end at any time, and the idea of starting again can be daunting. Breakups, death, or divorce can leave you feeling all alone and unprepared for what is facing you. Single and dating is not a place where you thought you would ever be again. This is the place to help.

Starting Over: How to Make Up

Getting Back Together • How to Make Up • Healing After a Break Up • Rejoining the Dating Game • Second Chances • Re-Marrying •

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How do I meet respectable men?
I'm a middle-aged, single woman who's just gotten out of a long-term relationship and moved to a new state. It's been long enough that I would like t...read more (2 answers)
bettywhite posted in Starting Over

Should I wait for love or pursue it?
I'm thinking of starting to date again... Should I just wait for love to come to me, like meeting someone at the dog park OR should I be more proactiv...read more (1 answers)
hisgirlfriday posted in Starting Over

Attention: Divorcee needs man!
I have been divorced for over a year, now and I'm ready to dip my toe back into the dating pool. The problem is how can I meet a man? I have a two y...read more (2 answers)
hev48986 posted in Starting Over

Getting Over Abuse
How is it possible to get over abuse?...read more (2 answers)
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Reincarnation
Is it possible that we have had many previous lives and somehow have flashes of them in you present one?...read more (1 answers)
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After his cheating: How to persuade myself?
Well, the story is that he was cheating and I forgave him. The forgiveness is the fact and don't suggest me to escape from this relationship. But how ...read more (3 answers)
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Scared Cheater
my ex and i are going to be parents soon,the reason we broke up was because of his cheating and lying habits. now that he has gotten tired of that wil...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Starting Over

I Miss My Ex --- I Think He was "The One"
I'm having a difficult time getting over my ex-boyfriend. It's been about eight months things ended between us. I've tried dating other men, but it ha...read more (2 answers)
anonymous posted in Starting Over

Marrying a widow/divorcee with adult children
Is it advisable to marry a widow(er)/divorcee with adult children? I have been dating a great lady and we have a wonderful relationship. We want to ma...read more (1 answers)
gpsgps posted in Starting Over

Picking up Where We Left Off - Is it Possible?
Is it possible to start a new relationship with someone you are separated from for a long time with the same zest?...read more (1 answers)
benga posted in Starting Over

Beating Cheating --- What Doesn't Kill Us Will Only Make us Stronger?
How do you pick up the pieces after an infidelity, especially if you decide to try to stay together?...read more (3 answers)
anonymous posted in Starting Over

Free at Last
I'm single again after 20 years of marriage. I don't know how to begin dating again. Any advice would be welcome. I'm a 42 year old professional woman...read more (3 answers)
anonymous posted in Starting Over

My broken heart is haunting me
About 10 years ago I was dating this gorgeous guy at college. I could not handle the situation as he was just too perfect and I always felt that he w...read more (2 answers)
dernancourt posted in Starting Over

Will giving my ex a Christmas gift send the wrong message?
My ex and I have been talking a lot recently. I don't think there is a possibility that we will get back together, but I am wondering if getting him ...read more (1 answers)
anonymous posted in Starting Over

Ex-boyfriend with benefits?
I hooked up with my ex boyfriend on my birthday. He drove about an hour to be able to come to dinner with me and a few other friends. I thought it w...read more (3 answers)
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