The office romance, while it may seem hot and steamy to watch on television, that situation can be complicated. The good "old saying" says it best “Don’t mix business with pleasure”. This is were you work and the means to how you provide for yourself, if he does not feel the same way that you do, than you just created a comfortable situation for the both of you. If he is interested, now this is were you needed to put yourself in the other women’s shoes. Picture this… Here you are waiting for your husband to come home every night. You take care of the home and make sure that his little children are taken care of. You put your trust in this man you give him all your love and attention. He made a vow to you that he will honor and cherish you all the days of his life. Now, picture this... Another woman swoops in and takes all that away, with out a second thought. Even if the house may be broken, it is not up to you to help tear it down. If you are not concerned for the other women, think about the children. You have stated that you were married once, how would you have felt if your husband did that to you? Or did he? If he did, than why would you want another woman to feel what you have already been through? The second thing you may want to ask yourself is, if he is interested in me, is this the kind of man that I would want to start my life over with, a man who cheats on his wife, a man who doesn’t think about what his actions can do to his kids. There are a lot of single men out there who are available to love. You deserve to be more than just a women on the side. Wouldn’t you want all his love instead of just what you can get? It doesn’t seem like this situation may give you the outcome you may be hoping for.

asked in Just Friends category on 03/15/2010