Porn is in the billions money wise across the world. You get to see people having every kind of sex imaginable. What was once a mystery is now reality, because of the sizes, shapes, positions, bizarre acts and it's all for one purpose: To build up to a climax and get relief. Sex to a man is so much different from most women. A man sees size and stamina as the ultimate importance, wherein women are mostly interested in intimate romance that hopefully carries her to climax without feeling like a whore. Two different mind sets and they are rarely discussed or understood. Men focus mostly on the visual female body and women are more interested in intellect, health of the man and future ambitions. Then there are the hormones that can run a man completely mad with lust. The longer he goes without it, the more his penis feels like exploding. I'm sure the female feels the same when there is little sex. Of course age and stress play a major role in all of this, but a man has to experiment and is mostly curious to see if he is doing what the porn stars are doing. it turns him on and then he usually wants his mate to watch along with him. Taken in the right prospective and with cautious curiosity, both you and your mate can derive great pleasure from the right skin flick. If you enjoy this sort of thing, then let him know it's fine once in awhile. Perhaps he misses something in the relationship and is trying to overcome with movies. Perhaps he wants you to get wild and nasty along with your fantasies running forward to just see how you will react. Talk to him about this and let him know you are listening for the both of you, but don't ever do something that makes you feel bad about yourself. Guilt can make you feel horrible and you must be able to keep a poker face in the world of sex sometimes, not ever letting the other know everything you are thinking. Just enough is enough and then let things work out to your good.

asked in Sex & Seduction category on 06/26/2010