Honestly speaking, it sounds like you have started the ball rolling and that there are several options here. However, let’s just focus on two! The first option is to continue chatting with her for a few weeks until you both feel equally as comfortable seeing each other and speaking to one another. This is the longer way but it isn’t unheard of as many couple have met in the same fashion. Playing it safe this way also means you have more time to suss out whether she is romantically involved with anyone, her interests, dislikes, etc... Thus, don’t underestimate playing it cool for a short while. The second option is to just come straight out and ask her if she would like to have coffee with you or lunch! Your right in thinking that these two options are less intimidating as a potential first date because you don’t have the added pressures that often accompany an evening date where supper, dancing, movies, going for drinks sometimes imply. It also tells her that you want to get to know her more on a level other than just physical, which is great. Going this route also means that you will know sooner if her interest is reciprocal or not, which could be intimidating but inevitably, you’re going to need to know one way or another. I personally think both options are good for you to pursue. Because you’re being realistic and are genuine, I have little doubt that if nothing else, she will be genuinely flattered by your interest in her. When it comes to matters of the heart, everybody has their own views and ideas and until you take a leap of faith you won’t know what hers are. I think option two sounds great personally, but if you are too shy, than just enjoy the day to day with her until you build up your confidence. I wish you the best of luck and do let us know how you get on!

asked in Dating Strategies category on 08/08/2010