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Would you date someone who had previously dated one of your friends?
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Member Since: May 2009
Gender: Female
Age Range: 42-50
Location: Edgewood , MD
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Questions Posted: 3
Answers Posted: 7
Rated Answers: 1
Gender: Female
Age Range: 42-50
Location: Edgewood , MD
Status: ?
Questions Posted: 3
Answers Posted: 7
Rated Answers: 1
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Let's see... I guess I'll start by saying that I am a single mom with a great deal of knowledge about relationships & men, and really enjoy offering straight forward advice and/or guidance to those who are looking to hear "how it really" is. I am an honest person who appreciated those who wish for "real" info, rather than those looking for someone to tell you what you WANT to hear...your family and friends can do that, that's not me. I am single by choice, though I do believe in putting forth your best effort in maintaining a relationship IF you truly love your significant other, and there is absolutely NO physical abuse. I am a pretty happy person, I love to laugh, and I think (and have been told) that I give very good advice.
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My husband has anger issues. How much should I be understanding of it?
Should you consider resolving things with your husband that you have a child with when he refuses to gain control of his ange ... see question and answers
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asked in Marriage category on 05/01/2009
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How do I get my girlfriend to be more social?
I had been straight all my life until in my second year of college I decided to see if the grass really was greener on the ot ...
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I had been straight all my life until in my second year of college I decided to see if the grass really was greener on the ot ...
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I think you already know the answer, don't you? No one can ever change another person. The most you can do it let her know exactly what the problem is, let her know how much she means to you, let her know that long term, things will never work this way, and allow her the opportunity to make a change on her own. If you mean enough to her, she can change if she chooses to...but keep in mind that you're looking for a permanent change, not a temporary one. I absolutely believe that people can change, but not without acknowledging their flaws and making a conscious effort to do something about it on their own. She will never change if SHE doesn't see anything needing to be changed. asked in Getting Serious category on 05/05/2009