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Posted on Feb 02, 2010
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Phone Sex with My Partner
I have a boy friend and we are in relation since 8 months. We like each other and we talk over hours on phone. My trouble is that my boy friend wants to make love over phone, with which i dont feel comfortable at all, I try to avoid it but at the end we get back to this scene almost everyday, I want to say this to him but I feel I would disappoint him, Any advise for me??
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He is doing this because he want you and only you or else he would seek sexual conversations with one more inclined to be willing.
Sit back, have a glass of wine, put on some background music and tell your boy friend that the phone is a no go and link those webcams!
Posted by:
sashamercy
on 02/25/2010
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Tell him frankly and firmly that you do not prefer indulging in such a thing. You say you are trying to avoid it, and that's a step in the right direction!!
If doing it doesn't feel right to you, do not do it!! Please do not fear 'disappointing him'. He should love and appreciate you for what you are. He should respect your decision to say NO. I'm sure that you'll agree with me that any relationship has to have a healthy amount of respect for the other person and for the choices they make. He needs to accept the fact that you are not at all into phone sex.
If, even after this, he continues to pressurize you, I would advise you to reconsider your relationship. Stand up for the values you believe in!
Posted by:
bikerfella
on 02/03/2010
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