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Would you date someone who had previously dated one of your friends?

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Posted on Apr 06, 2010
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Boyfriend Looking to Hang with Bad Boy Friends

My boyfriend wants to go on a seven day cruise with three of his friends, whom I do not approve of. They are all single and always looking to "hookup" with women, and I don't want him to be influenced. How do I tell him that I am really uncomfortable with him hanging out with them without sounding controlling?

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I think you say it just like that "I'm not sure how to tell you how I feel without sounding controlling" You definately need to be honest with him. But if your relationship is meant to last you need to trust him. But, first trust your gut -- does it tell you that you can really trust him? If not, let him go on the cruise and you go find something or someone to keep you busy! But, if your gut tells you that you can really trust him then let him go on the cruise and relax - but not without casually expressing your concern about his friends' behaviors. (oh and dropping a love note in his suitcase works well too!)
Good luck! Hopefully he will realize what a great catch he has back home!

Posted by: Blaircarroll on 04/06/2010

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