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How can you prevent the end of a love affair?
After dating for a year or more, the sameness set in and the excitement left. The excitement of the first kiss and the first intimate, romantic episode that was enchanting. Once obtained, conquered or investigated, the first kiss and sexual experience can then become routine with each passing day. Then one of you says the wrong thing and triggers a downhill slide to what will ultimately become the end of your love affair. No matter which one of you suggest the closing door that's marked, "nevermore", you both sense it's over. So how does one prevent such a romantic tragedy from taking place? Is it fate or the wrong partner choice or could it simply be you're not focusing on the other person enough?
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Sexual attraction is a big part of what brings two people together, but it takes much more to keep it that way. When you love someone, little things he or she does or says will turn you on and get you in the mood--not what he or she is wearing. You have to ask yourself where your feelings for this person are coming from. Addressing these types of issues early in the relationship is the key to avoiding future heart break. The longer you drag something out, the weaker it becomes. And we all know it's hard to leave the wounded behind without feeling guilty for causing it pain. If you do love your partner, you'll find ways to get past this. You could always talk to him or her about what he or she wants to see from you in the bedroom. A relationship is full of battles and break downs, and this won't be the biggest problem you come across. Try your best to work it out, and if it is still bothering you make it a point to figure out why.
Posted by:
eun57673
on 06/20/2010
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Just remember, you enjoyed each other's company, and at the time that person was the right choice. But people change, and evolve, as do relationships and you both realize that it's time to move on. When both of you sense it's over, it seems that the natural progression of the relationship has drawn to an end.
However, you question not focusing enough attention on your partner. Some people do this not enough, some people do it too much. Sometimes, if it's not working, no matter what you do it won't work.
Also, this seems to happen in many of your relationships, try to observe what the "breaking" point is, when you start to grow apart. Is it always a certain event that sparks it? Be aware of yourself.
Best of luck.
Posted by:
wickedrad
on 06/19/2010
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