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How do I tell my girlfriend that I am not satisfied with our sex life? I am very attracted to her, but she doesn't ever want to do anything new and different. It's always the same old stuff IF it's anything at all!

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First off, this is a VERY sensitive topic for most women, so make sure to proceed with extreme caution! More often than not, a bland sex life is the direct result of another issue hidden somewhere else in your relationship. It could be an insecurity that she secretly holds, or just that you are not sharing enough intimacy OUT of the sheets. The best way for you to fix your lack of bedroom play is to find out why it is suffering in the first place.

Just by changing a few things in your every day routine, you may find out what it is that is keeping her from your bed.

1. Try being more romantic. This doesn't mean you need to bring home flowers every night, just send her a quick text message at work to tell her that she's on your mind. Write "I love you" on the message board at home so she will see it before she leaves in the morning.
2. Tell her that she's beautiful regularly. If she is insecure about something, she will tell you. You may not be listening, but she has been telling you. Pay attention to signals, whether she covers something subconsciously, or is so blunt as to respond with "thanks, but..."

Once you solve the "lack-of" problem, you can begin with the adventerous side of things. Make it fun for her too. Incorporate things that she likes, whether it's food, music, or candles and a bath. A woman gains the most pleasure when she knows that she is pleasing you and that you greatly desire her. Let her know it!

Posted by: BeinReal on 01/05/2009

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