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Would you date someone who had previously dated one of your friends?

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Posted on Mar 31, 2009
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Why Did He Drop Me --- Things Seemed Great...
I met a guy last summer. We only talked a few times until a couple months ago. It was the start of a new semester (my last and his second) at school. We were both single so we started talking more and then we became pretty physical. I really started to like him and I thought he felt the same way, but just 3 weeks ago, he said that he have to stop the physical stuff because a relationship won't work out and he doesn't want to be just messing around. I was sort of ok with this because he is a good friend, but then he kept calling me and hanging out with me all the time. We still weren't physical, but then a week ago, right before I was graduating, he told me that he doesn't want to be my friend or talk to me. It really hurt my feelings because I thought that he was falling for me again. Then I went to say bye to him the day I moved out and he said that he was so confused and doesn't know what he wants. Then he just held me while I cried and said that he would visit me whenever I want. I haven't talked to him since this night. I haven't contacted him and he hasn't contacted me. It wouldn't be a big deal, but I really like him and he always treated me well. Should I talk to him or wait for him to contact me? Maybe I should just let it go? I don't know what he meant by him being confused... like was it about me and him or him not wanting to be my friend?
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You say he treated you well? I think not! He seemed to be using you to figure himself out, something that seems to not have worked. Unfortunately, he was right, he is confused and your feelings do not need to suffer for it. Don't let him string you along and make you feel guilty or responsible. It is not worth your time or confidence to let him treat you like second string whenever it suits him. You deserve better and if he's going to be in your life, then he needs to figure things out FIRST. Move on, be happy. This friendship is not worth the pain.
Posted by: mammabare on 03/31/2009
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