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Posted on Dec 19, 2009
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Daddy, I Love You But It's Time to LET GO!

My father thinks I am still his litle girl. No boys even attempts to come near my house. When will my father grow up?

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How old are you? You should be thrilled that your dad takes this kind of interest in your well being. I adored my dad and he was there to keep things straight my whole life. If he is like mine, he is just trying to protect his little girl, and yes, you will be his little girl long after you are married and on your own. My dad was there for me through some awful times, includint the death of one of my children as a baby. I wouldn't have gotten through it without him. In a girl/woman's life there is one constant if she is lucky and that is a father who loves her and wants nothing but the best for "his little girl" My dad died in 2001, we were close like that and I miss him every day.

Posted by: PurpleDragon on 01/03/2010

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Well, I don't know your age, so I'm flying kind of blind here, but here goes: focus on growing up YOURSELF. What I mean by that is: find the freedom you seek in your own mind first. Ask yourself how you still play the role of 'Daddy's Little Girl'. What's the payoff in doing it? Is it worth the price? As you free yourself from the need to be a little girl within (and believe me, we ALL will ALWAYS have parts of ourselves that want to remain children, so you're not alone in this!), your responses to your Dad, men, women, etc. will change without. You can't do this with one declaration to your Dad, it has to come out of your behavior in a continuous way. Yes, there may be some real tugs-of-war as he tries to stop you from changing, but if you respond maturely and without anger, you'll get his attention in ways that won't provoke an all-out war. By growing up yourself, your Dad will come to respect you and give you more and more freedom (well, actually you'll be taking more and more freedom for yourself, but you can let him feel generous, right?)

Posted by: richwitch on 12/19/2009

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