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Feb 24 2010
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I've been with my boyfriend for three years, living together for two. He's the love of my life and I would never do anything to hurt him. Eight months ago we decided to rent a duplex with his sister, and things started off really great and harmonious. Lately though, I've been been forced to admit to myself that I'm really attracted to her. I've never had a lesbian experience or thought of myself as gay, and I would never want to cheat on him. But lately, I can't stop myself from checking her out and wondering what it would be like, just once. I have no way of knowing if the feeling is mutual, but she has never dated a man or mentioned one since I've known her. We spend a lot of time home alone together while BF is out. We laugh, talk, hug, and just generally have an amazing time together. Please help! I feel like I might be tempted to either make a fool of myself or do something that might hurt my wonderful BF.
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This could be a passing fancy and age appropriate. Just remember that a homosexual sexual indiscretion is still cheating, it doesnt excuse the action what so ever.
Try fantasizing while having sex with your BF. Close your eyes and let your mind run wild. This will either pass after a while of the fantasy or you may find out in a few months that you are gay. Either way please keep in mind that unless you end the relationship any sexual action on the side is still wrong.
Try fantasizing while having sex with your BF. Close your eyes and let your mind run wild. This will either pass after a while of the fantasy or you may find out in a few months that you are gay. Either way please keep in mind that unless you end the relationship any sexual action on the side is still wrong.
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Dear K-
Dating siblings is a giant no-no! What you find yourself doing is comparing one to the other. They are from the same family unit, have similar values as well as kissing styles. Yes, kissing styles! I once found myself dating brother’s years apart from one and other and all I could do was compare them to each other. Not only does it bring you to a comfortable place with physical attributes being similar, but it also opens up a messy door. Think of family dinners and holidays. What a disaster in the making!
My best advice is to talk to your bf about your recent feelings towards the opposite sex. Exclude who the person is if possible. Ask whether or not making love to another woman is considered cheating with your man. Ask him if he is comfortable with you going out with women and leaving him alone. Will he feel rejected? Will he want to join and is that okay with you? This is a pivotal time in your relationship and communicating as honestly as possible before any action is your best bet. Feeling betrayed and loosing what you feel is an amazing relationship can only lead to regret!
I still say, stay away from his sister! Not only is it a scary situation to embark on with family members, but it is also going to ruin your current living situation. Having a good home life is important to your mental and emotional health! Besides, if you find her attractive, there has to be other women out there who may also do it for you. Just go shopping and check out the people instead.
Dating siblings is a giant no-no! What you find yourself doing is comparing one to the other. They are from the same family unit, have similar values as well as kissing styles. Yes, kissing styles! I once found myself dating brother’s years apart from one and other and all I could do was compare them to each other. Not only does it bring you to a comfortable place with physical attributes being similar, but it also opens up a messy door. Think of family dinners and holidays. What a disaster in the making!
My best advice is to talk to your bf about your recent feelings towards the opposite sex. Exclude who the person is if possible. Ask whether or not making love to another woman is considered cheating with your man. Ask him if he is comfortable with you going out with women and leaving him alone. Will he feel rejected? Will he want to join and is that okay with you? This is a pivotal time in your relationship and communicating as honestly as possible before any action is your best bet. Feeling betrayed and loosing what you feel is an amazing relationship can only lead to regret!
I still say, stay away from his sister! Not only is it a scary situation to embark on with family members, but it is also going to ruin your current living situation. Having a good home life is important to your mental and emotional health! Besides, if you find her attractive, there has to be other women out there who may also do it for you. Just go shopping and check out the people instead.
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