Asked

Apr 6 2010

Female

My friend is a lonely person. She has been for a mate for a long time. With this in mind, her affection comes off to anyone she feels close to. When she is around my boyfriend she tends to be a little flirtatious with him--like a lonely flirtatious. How can I handle this situation if I do in fact desire to keep a friendship with her?

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Answered

Apr 6 2010

I see what you are saying, but let's try not to make excuses for her. Right is right and wrong is wrong is some instances. She has to understand that flirting with another person's mate, especially yours is a NO NO! You are going to have to stand up for yours. Let her know how you view her actions towards your boyfriend in a firm, but not rude way. If she values your friendship, then she will understand.

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