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Apr 21 2010
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I have been with my boyfriend for four years now. We are engaged, to be married. The only problem is that even though I love him, I don’t like him. I don’t like the way he acts as a person sometimes. He can act immature, but I love him. Has this happened to anyone else? Is it just cold feet?
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This is the age old thing of loving someone but not being 'in love' with them. You no doubt love him because you have spent so much time together, and have gotten engaged because it seemed like the logical next step. The trouble is, you have gotten confused between the ideas of loving him as a person, and being in love with him. It may not be cold feet, but the little voice inside telling you that you could be making the wrong decision. It is important to figure this out while it is easier (and cheaper) to let go. The last thing you want to do is to get a divorce later on down the road.
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Yikes.
It's time for some brutal honesty here. Marriage is not just another stepping stone in life; it's not taking a new job, it's not buying a new car. You're going to be spending the. rest. of. your. life. with this man. Do you want to spend the. rest. of. your. life. with someone you don't even like?
It's my opinion that the person you marry should be your best friend - your partner. Someone that you wake up craving every morning and fall asleep each night only to dream about.
I understand you've been together for four years and you've already got the coveted ring on your finger, but it's never, and let me emphasize here, NEVER, too late to start over. If you love your fiance like you say that you do, in your heart I think you know that he deserves to be with someone who will both love and like him for the man that he is.
I know it's not what you want to hear, but as difficult as ending this relationship will be now, it will be exponentially more difficult when it ends in divorce.
It's time for some brutal honesty here. Marriage is not just another stepping stone in life; it's not taking a new job, it's not buying a new car. You're going to be spending the. rest. of. your. life. with this man. Do you want to spend the. rest. of. your. life. with someone you don't even like?
It's my opinion that the person you marry should be your best friend - your partner. Someone that you wake up craving every morning and fall asleep each night only to dream about.
I understand you've been together for four years and you've already got the coveted ring on your finger, but it's never, and let me emphasize here, NEVER, too late to start over. If you love your fiance like you say that you do, in your heart I think you know that he deserves to be with someone who will both love and like him for the man that he is.
I know it's not what you want to hear, but as difficult as ending this relationship will be now, it will be exponentially more difficult when it ends in divorce.
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