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Oct 5 2009
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My wife thinks that credit cards are automatic money machines that never have to be paid off. When I show her the bills, she just says she HAD to have those shoes. We've already declared bankruptcy twice. Should I just cancel the credit cards and tell her she has to get a job to pay for her little shopping sprees? How do I get through to her?
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I think you have just given yourself the answer. If your wife is unable to control her shoping, what you can do is cancel your credit cards and ask her to get a job to support her shopping. Having to declare bankruptcy twice is not a joking matter. You have to remember that sometimes the only way to solve a problem is by taking things into your own hands. Go ahead and end your credit card bill problems.
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I need some advice. Been married for a few years (2nd time for her - 1st for me) I accepted her kids and her life before me -and we created a life together. I have caught her in lies, and she has cheated on me. I love her with all my heart, and my reaction often is - i am leaving. I don't think i want to leave - but i don't know what else to do? Our styles of parenting often clash (they are teena... read more
Answer 1
This relationship is bust. You need trust as the foundation. Get out.
Answer 2
She lies to you....why are you questioning yourself? She's not worthy.
Answer 3
Stick it out. Try to work on things. Pursue counseling.
Answer 4
I feel sorry for the kids. They are the victims, here.