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Dec 6 2009
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I am 36 years old and clearly feel that I am like a can of spaghetti past its use-by date. I cannot bare the thought of reaching 40 and being single and childless. Past relationships just have not worked out. What can I do?
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Feb 25 2010
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First off get rid of the canned spaghetti and get some take out from your favorite place. Now take a deep breath look in the mirror, exhale and laugh because you are in the prime of your life, single and no kids to tie you down.
Join organizations (non-profit and civic based) accept invitations and just comb the local clubs getting back out there. After a while of this you will either miss the warmth and comfort of the quiet life, or you will have reinvented yourself. Give it a month, I predict it will change your thinking.
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Dec 7 2009
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Start dressing like a you know what and then men will start flocking to you.
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Dec 6 2009
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Change. Ask your friends for an honest opinion of why they feel you are single. Take the response that you hear most and adjust.
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Firstly, you need to look back into your past to see if there are any patterns in your behaviour. Have you had any previous relationships? How did they start? How did they end? Did they all end the same way? If you can find a pattern - and it is very likely - then you need to start working out a way to break out of it.

Give yourself a time limit of say 12 months to sort it out on your own. If you want a quicker result, a visit to a good relationship counsellor or psychologist could well be the answer. The problem for women is that their biological clock is ticking against them. For this reason, I would suggest seeking help sooner rather than later.

Throw yourself into interesting hobbies and volunteer work. By this I do not mean joining a knitting or cooking class which will be full of women. How about taking on car maintenance or sailing. Be brave. Think about parachuting or hang-gliding. You are 100% certain to meet adventurous, fit young men in those sports. There is something rather bonding about doing a tandem parachute jump. Remember that love can blossom in the most mysterious places! Above all, relax .. and enjoy the ride!
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